“You’re not a faggot for liking a dick in your ass. You’re not a pussy for liking to be receptive, and you’re not a woman that you enjoyed getting fucked.” He replied, “Ya know that’s what I said, ‘Did you come in me…that’s what a woman says…that’s what I’m thinking.” “You’re not a woman for getting fucked. You still have your balls, no one can take that away. You’re still a man.”
A lot and I mean a LOT of guys have this type of thinking, that they’re pussies for liking dick in the ass. Not true. There are a lot of men and women who’ll say otherwise, that’s true, but they’re not sexually educated.(That’s the nice way of saying it).
The thing is, I used to say the same thing. I know that type of thinking (that you’re a woman if you get fucked) because I used to be one of the assholes that said it. Now that I specialize in sexual questions & coaching, I know differently.
I know that there are plenty of straight guys, guys who love pounding pussy, that love to have their prostate massaged and the feeling of their anus being played with. They don’t want to get fucked, they don’t want another guy anywhere near there, but they love the prostate pleasure (and they should!). Kayne West (and I don’t know or care to know the whole story) was outed as liking anal play. He fought back citing that he’s not gay. Well, you don’t need to be to like anal play. Check out this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nico-lang/hey-kanye-anal-play-is-no_b_9158644.html
I’m Jim the Sex Coach, I’m an advocate for healthy sexual pleasure and expression. I advocate for men’s sexuality & sexual expression, and women’s sexuality & sexual expression, and for the people who might ID as being be in between, and for people who ID as Trans, or Cis, or Fluid, or Other.
Let’s start without the shame. Let’s start without the judgment.
I like sex. You like sex. Let’s actually talk about it.
While I’m learning about the blogging bit, but I’m not new to the sex scene or various sexual communities. The intention of this site, I’m thinking as I’m writing this, is to advocate for sexual rights, hopefully while educating and even entertaining along the way. I also hope to be a source of world sexual news, probably with my commentary, maybe some tips/techniques…as for the whole picture, I’m not sure yet.
That all said, there’s a LOT of stuff on feminism and the objectification of women. Hell, ISIS is giving birth control to women/girls so they can use them as sex slaves. Have a look at this article: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/13/world/middleeast/to-maintain-supply-of-sex-slaves-isis-pushes-birth-control.html.
It’s gotten fucking crazy. BUT. Most of the news of focused on what I call the sex negative. I’m wanting to be more focused on the person or individual people, and the sex positive. Positive sexuality, positive sensuality, and positive eroticism. I don’t know where this site or I’ll end up, I just know that I’m wanting to speak my voice to help those that may not otherwise get the information.